Lemonada. For me, music, well, listening to music is both an escape from what's going on and a way to feel what's going on more intensely. Always has been. When I was little, I loved the Beatles. Little kids love the Beatles. I especially love Ringo. Ringo was my favorite because he had that big nose. That's irresistible. I had a John Lennendoll, too, that somebody gave to me. Of course, I was only five years old, so I didn't know they were geniuses. I love the monkeys, partly because they were cute and funny. But last train to Clarksville is pretty fucking good, truth be told. My grandma Dee Dee gave me a Monkey's record. Somebody must have told her to do that because I think she was more Benny Goodman than Mickey Dolans. And of course, crushes are tied to music. I mean, I've already talked on this show about Bobby Sherman, but how about James Taylor? Oh, Lord Jesus. James Taylor on the cover of the album, Sweet Baby James. I just looked at it and I fell so deeply in love all over again. And I have to say, side note, there was this guy that worked at a woman's clothing boutique that was really funky and cool called the Elephant Trunk, and it was in Mount Kisco, New York.

And I used to go into that store, practically on a daily basis when I was visiting my dad because that man was there and he looked so much like James Taylor, and I would just look at him. And I can look at him right now in my mind's eye, and I'm leaving my husband for that man because he was so fucking gorgeous. Anyway, I'm talking about music. It's very, very evocative. Holy Christ. And I think the most important musical discovery for me was around middle school when I fell in love with rhythm and blues, soul music, and funk. I started to go to concerts in Washington, DC, with my best friend Carlene. We saw the Commodores, we saw Sly and the Family Stone, Parliament Funkadelic. We love to funk you, Funkenstein. Your funk is the best. And it was the best. I still can't get enough of that music. And then, a couple of years out of high school, I got to be on Saturday Night Live, and I got to see all these artists up close when they were the musical guests on the show, and we got some great ones like Queen and The Clash, and Randy Newman, and that band, Squeez, Excuse me.

Does anyone remember Squeeze? They were so great. Just saying those names takes me right back. But to top them all, one week, who is the host and the musical guest? Stevie Wonder. Yeah, Stevie Wonder. And he shows up, and of course, he's exactly what you want him to be. He's funny, he's charming, he's singing all the time, and he's a genius. I mean, of course. I mean, come on, he's Stevie Wonder. So there's this meeting in the executive producer's room with all the actors and the writers and everybody with Stevie Wonder to pitch sketches or something I don't really exactly remember, but I was late. Okay? Oh, God. So I get there, and they're like 25 people crammed into the room, and I'm very embarrassed to be late, of course. So I sneak into the room, and Stevie Wonder from across the room says, Well, there she is, my pretty baby. And everybody looks over, and I'm blushing, of course, because I'm caught being late, but mostly because Stevie Wonder just called me pretty. And then I thought, Wait, what? How did he know it was me? The guy is blind. How did he know it was me?

And it turns out he loves to make jokes about his blindness, probably because he's never let it hold him back in any way. I mean, he kept pitching sketches where he was driving cars and heavy machinery, and there was a controversial sketch where he played tennis against Joe Piscopo and actually got into the show. Anyway, just so many memories are tied to songs and artists. Just one or two notes and everything floods back. The crush, the breakup, the sadness, the joy, the adventure, the life. Music is the fastest way to get me to feel something here in my body and not in my head. I mean, even honestly, even Christmas carols. God damn it. Sometimes I get so choked up, I can barely sing along. It's power. Music has real power, a direct connection through your ears to your heart, to your emotions, your soul. I really do believe music might be the best part of being human. That's something to consider. And then there's an artist that I haven't mentioned, and I haven't mentioned her on purpose. I was saving her for last. She Is that important to me. I have goosebumps as I'm saying this.

Her music, how she writes, how she sings, how she plays guitar, how she plays slide guitar. If I could, boy, I'd want to do it just the way she does. Today, we're talking to Bonnie Wright. Hi, I'm Julia Louis Drive us. And this is Wiser Than Me, the podcast where I get schooled by women who are wiser than me. All right. So even though I love music, it's hard to get me out of the house to listen to people live for some reason. I don't know. But today's guest is one artist I never miss. One time I saw her outdoors in San Francisco. It was August. And so, of course, it was freezing. And she was playing, I remember, with James Taylor. And my husband said, How is she going to play? It's too cold. And she came out and she actually said, Oh, God, it's fucking freezing. And she got somebody to give her a pair of gloves that have half the finger cut out. So she was basically playing in mittons, and it didn't matter. She played so beautifully. And afterwards, I wanted to go and say hi to her, but I couldn't stop crying.

So it was just too embarrassing. I've seen her over and over, and yet she still makes me cry to songs I've heard her sing a thousand times. Sometimes. She is the one singer who I feel like she's mine. Do you know what I mean? I have my own relationship with her music that makes me feel like more than just another fan. And of course, there are thousands, hundreds of thousands of her fans who feel exactly the same way. And oh, my God, the way she plays guitar. She is such a distinct, singular artist, whether she's playing blues or soul or rock and roll, covering something or playing one of her perfect original songs, she kills it. You know it's her instantly. She got her first guitar when she was eight or nine and discovered she had real talent on it at a Quaker summer camp in upstate New York. Cut to decades later, Bibi King called her the best slide player working today. I mean, come on. She's just all red hair and no bullshit, right? I'm so crazy about her tough, don't fuck with me, get it done attitude, all while being indisputably high.

Shot. She's navigated the music business for more than five decades, always on her own terms, and that's an industry notorious for its misogyny. When she started her own record label, she hired a team of four superstar women so that they would be the ones calling the shots. Yup, our guest today is the Rock and Roll Hall of Famer with 18 studio albums under her belt, who's been nominated for 30 Grammy Awards and won 13 of them, including Song of the Year, which she just won last year. The Woman is a living legend, ranking on the Rolling Stones list of the greatest singers and the list of the greatest guitarists of all time, and she's absolutely the top of my list in both. I haven't even mentioned her social activism, her political power, her devotion to original blues artist, and her extraordinary personal journey. Oh, and by the way, on her very first album, 1971, she even had a tune called Women Be Wise. How about that? So let's welcome a woman who is so much wiser than me, Bonnie Great. Hi, Bonnie.

Hey, how are you? Julia, I don't know how I can live up to this. I'm shaking in my boots. Don't be shaken. I'm shaken. I'm so honored that you get me so deeply because it takes all of those qualities you like in me are in you, and that's how we make that connection. I know that's the truth, and I've seen them in you, so thank you for honoring me.

Oh, my God. I'm already crying because I love you so much.

I do.

I really do.

I'm just so happy. I'm I'm very touched. I'm verklimbed myself.

Well, anyway, thank you for being here today. Let me start by asking the requisite question, are you comfortable if I ask you your age?

Absolutely. Proudly 74 as of November last year. Nice.

How old do you feel, Bonnie?

Oh, my God. Probably 50. The wear and tear on joints from being active and injuries here and there and all that stuff. Just wear and tear from age is the only way I feel a little bit more, I wouldn't say less vibrant, but it takes a little bit more to get up off the couch. I can tell that the parts are getting a little worn. Creaky? A little worn. I'm trying to keep the soft tissue and the spirit still gooey.

Smart. But are the parts getting... I mean, you still do what you want to do, physically?

Are you? Yes. I work at it. I mean, I try to do yoga at least three times a week, and I hike, and I move around, and trying not to sit around too much. But it's 74 is different than 64. We'll all have to keep lifting each other up through these rough times because that's the part that beats us down more than gravity, I think. The cruelty and the suffering and the war and the endless stupidity. What? Are you kidding? I think that wears you out.

Beets down the spirit.

It's harder to get up off the spiritual couch when you get that pound in your down.

I like that. What do you think is the best part about being your age?

I really think that you're more relaxed about the things that could bother you a lot more. That triggers, you recognize that you get reactive and trigger, and it's just not worth the agita. It's not healthy for you. It doesn't end up harboring resentments, harboring anger, and keep stuffing it and not saying how you really feel. That works to get you in the world, but somehow I can't separate the fact that I'm in a tremendously lucky position of having enough power to be self-powered in the business. I run my own ship with a great team, but I don't work for anybody, and I don't have to answer to anybody. I'm living in a time when women can carve their own destinies a lot more than my mother's generation, even. I think I've earned the ability to be more relaxed from 36 years of work in a sobriety program, but also spiritual and therapy. Some of it is just the age. I can't separate the times we're in from having been a feminist. If we were fighting what women had to fight in the 1930s- Oh, please. I probably looked like my grandmother did when she was 74.

It was tougher to be a woman before. I think we no more. We know how to get out of situations that are really unpleasant and not working. We're wiser, and we get the hell out of that situation and stop hanging out with people that are draining us. And that's a wisdom that hopefully could come earlier. But for me, it took a long time. So every decade, I'm not putting up with anymore this crap, and I'm more comfortable where I'm at. And if I'm not comfortable, it's up to me to move out of the way.

So it sounds like you found a way of being more sanguine about either certain things that maybe used to bother you, and now you can let them go. And if they really bother you and they deserve attention, you handle it, maybe without apology, by the way?

That was very well-spoken. But yeah, I think that I'm better at that than I was. I'm less at the mercy of other people. And I've heard a lot of women on your podcast and heard a lot of other women that I admire and read their books and have friends that are older than me, and they also have told me they are just more comfortable with themselves than they used to be.

I've heard you differentiate before between capital B, Bonnie, and lowercase B, Bonnie. Can you explain the difference between... I have a feeling I know what you mean, but will you tell us what you mean between those two types of Bonnie?

Yes, and that's diving deep early on, but why not? Yeah, let's do it. Yeah. The way those two uppercase and lowercase came up for me was in being asked about the balance of my life. What bugs you? And what bugs you. What bugs me is, and what has driven a lot of, as I've learned over the years with therapy and in subri, working on my programs and finding out, trying to analyze why I do what I do and why I was moved to overindulge in this or pick the wrong partner. Why How have I been the way that I've been when it's clearly not working? And that's something that comes with age. But one of the problems that I recognized early on was ever since I was little, I really got more strokes and attention and love by performing outside of my family unit at school, even for my relatives. I became Bonnie, the cute little redhead with dimples, that if I did a little Shirley Temple tap dancer, and then later, if I played the guitar for my folks' friends, I got a lot of positive attention by being extroverted. I think that red-headed personality thing, you're born with that color hair and I was supposed to grow into it.

I got what I didn't get at home by being Big Bonnie. I'll say that later, when I became professional, I'm more comfortable on stage. And I always wondered why. Why when I come off stage, I don't have the same self-esteem or lack of self-judgment. So I was beating myself up a lot, and privately as a little girl when I went back. And so I wonder when that started. I was never that comfortable when I wasn't performing the version of myself, that was a good little girl or the cute girl or the talented girl or the always or the daddy's little girl and not caused too much of a ruckus And then when I was just back in my room, I would pour my heart out and play the guitar and just sing these sad ballads and longing and look in the mirror and hate what I saw. So I had a double life early on. And I have to be careful now that I don't let that schism happen. And I remember the metaphor of the Wizard of Oz being found out to be just a regular man. Pay no attention to the man Client of the curtain.

The best movie ever. The best.

I totally related to that because I have been given this mantle of so much power and responsibility. I look so badass to everybody, but I'm really not like that. In my private life, I have to really wrestle who that is in the ground and see, don't spend too much time just stoking the BR machinery. Otherwise, you lose who you are when you're just a smaller case.

Well, that is just fascinating. And I think that that... Well, there are two things I need to say. One is, I think even in my own life as a performer, obviously, I don't do what you do. But when I perform, it's like a hit of something. It's very delicious and intoxicating, right? It's intoxicating. And I love it. I love it, but it isn't who I am either. I mean, it is who I am, but it's not the whole thing at all. When I walk into a room, people expect me just to be funny. I have a funny bone. I have a sense of humor, but I'm not like, Shecky Green going off. You know what I'm saying? I'm not. But that thing, I know what you're talking about. They bump up against each other. When you're a performer, right? They really do. I completely get that. The other thing I just wanted to mention is because you mentioned The Wizard of Oz, which is like top five movie for me of all time.

I agree.

And every time I watch that movie, I die. I cry so hard. It's so beautiful. Have you ever heard Judy Garland's? There was a scene in the movie that they cut in which she sing somewhere over the rainbow when she's being held in the castle by the witch. And evidently, But listen, Bonnie, seriously, you got to find it because you'll start crying. It is so gut-wrenching because she can barely get through it. She's weeping so much. And they decided to cut it because it was too sad. But if you hear it, You will hear what a magnificent performer she is, which you already knew, of course. But it is an elevated performance of that tune. So do me a favor and look for that, okay? Or have somebody find that for me.

Thank you for telling me about that, because I immediately get her vulnerability in her voice for all the strength that she had. That's why so many people relate to her. That's right.

There is a real vulnerability.

Oh, my gosh. And to be put through what she was put through as a child and uppers and downers and dance for this.

Right, exactly. Do you feel pressure to create? Do you feel frustration when you're not creating?

Oh, no. Here you go. Here's where the rubber hits the road. I am frustrated not being on tour. There's nothing like what happens on stage. Nothing like it. I mean, I make records so I can tour. My dad loved it till the day he stopped performing at 86 years old, and he only mostly stopped because his audience was passed away. But I'm telling you that I am frustrated when I'm not... It's not the adulation of the crowd. It's the gang camaraderie, it's the traveling. Yeah, totally. It's the waking up in a different city in a new opening act, an opening night. Every night, show those people you still got it. I love, since I was 20 years old, being on the road. So when I'm home, I have a satisfying, beautiful life here. I live where I want to live. I got a small circle of chosen family, friends, and I'm healthy and I'm lucky, but I really miss what happens playing with other people on the road. I mean, playing by myself is not as satisfying.

But do you play every day?

No, I only play when I'm getting ready to tour.

You really? So you're not sitting around noodling on the guitar or the piano at home?

No. No way. Really? No, I'm too busy managing the big career of this woman who, Where's my name? So the business of being Bonnie Raitt is taking up a lot of my time, and I'm glad to do it and answer as diplomatically and kindly when I can't do a benefit or I can't sing on someone's record or I can't write a blurb. And when I hear a song that I really love and I want to do it live, then I pick up the guitar and learn it. Got it. But I'm not one of those... When I was a teenager, I just played all the time, but I don't do that so much anymore. But now I'm planned for fun, and I got to get my calluses going again. I did my vocal warmup today, and I'm singing on a session after we dock on this podcast I'm singing on someone's record. So I'm getting that fire is going again, and my fingers are going, Where is it? Where is it?

My son is a musician, and he's always noodling and writing. I mean, he's young, of course. And he wanted me to ask you, how written out beforehand are your solos? Are they fully improvised on the day or notated beforehand?

I wouldn't know how to notate a solo. I didn't take guitar lessons, so I don't know how to read music. But I took a little piano lesson, but I I do everything by ear, pretty much. I just make chord charts when I'm learning a new song, but I play mostly by ear. But yeah, it's pretty spontaneous. When I'm making a record, I like to get it as live as possible on the first or second take. So minimal rehearsal, just pick the key, learn the lyrics. I get the lyrics in front of me so I can just be present and get the band and I rocking on this tune. And then later I do my guitar solo, so I might do three or four takes. But when I piece together from two or different takes, if I want to make a combo, a lot of times I start with that as the scaffolding for the solos on tour. I'm not a big jam. I'm not a big jam stretch out for three or four times around. I'd rather play more songs in the set and save the guitar duels for the rockers. Then I turned to my other guitar player and we just let her rip for a while.

So that's fun.

That's so fun. So you took Piano, I think you said for five years when you were Yes.

God, good memory.

I took piano for two years, and then I quit when my piano teacher hit me, if you can believe it.

Are you serious?

That bitch hit me.

I would have hit her back. Like, Sydney Poitier in To Sir with love. Not to serve with Love, in the heat of the night when he slaps Rod Steiger. Yeah, unbelievable.

But anyway, so that was the end of my piano lessons. But you wanted to play rock tunes and stuff of the day, and I guess they wouldn't let you do that or what?

No, I love taking my piano lessons. My teacher passed away, and I also fell in love with the guitar, and I was playing a guitar more. And I got enough out of the piano. I only wanted to learn piano enough so that I could back myself up and play a theme from Exodus and pop songs. My mom was my dad's musical director in rehearsal. That's right. And so we had racks and racks of drawers of alphabetized sheet music, and I would just come home. When it wasn't time for me to learn my classical piece, I would play Richard Rodgers' songs, or if ever, I would Leave You. I'd do all the Broadway songs, and I would play by ear and sing along with them. So I'm so lucky that I grew up with two incredible music parents.

And let me ask you something, how do you know when a song is the right fit for you? Does it hit you in the gut right away? Do you know instantly?

I pretty much know when I hear a song that I love so much that I just want to sing it. I mean, it started when we were little. And Joan Baez, that was one thing to fall in love with that first Joan Baez or Odetta record, but I just had to sing and play it, not for performing it, but just to take in the communing with her. There's something about the song where it wasn't enough to just hear her do it. And it wasn't about her as much as it was just what that made me feel. I wanted to make myself feel. So I would sing for myself. And I'm still, when I hear a song that I go nuts over, I go, Man, we're going to kill that.

And you know right away. You know right away. That's so interesting because I have I mean, just like reading a script, for example, if you know, you know. It's a gut feeling. It's like, Oh, I have to do this, is the feeling. I have to do this.

I have to just do a sidetrack and say, You hurt my feelings is so great.

Thank you.

It is so fantastic, as are all your performances. I just adore you, so don't get me started. Thank you so much. I'll bet you When you read that script, you said, I have to do this.

Well, I'll tell you, interestingly, first of all, what's so uncanny is that you mentioned that because your voice, if I close my eyes, your voice sounds a lot like Nicole Hullif Center's voice, who's the director and writer. But when I sat down with Nicole, before she'd even written the script, and she told me the premise being that a woman who's a writer who relies on her husband, they're madly in love with one another for his support. When he says he likes something, obviously he likes something of hers. Then she only finds out that the film is about her finding out that he's been lying to her about her work, and he actually hates it.

It's so profound. Isn't it? Oh my God. It's so profound. I relate to this so much that I almost wanted to go ask everybody in my life that is, Have you been lying to me? It's very risky to do it with your romantic partner, though. No shit. I like to keep them separate for that reason because I don't want to be asked what my opinion is of what they're doing or the other way around. I just go, Sounds great.

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Because of this shock of hair on the side. I thought so. It goes down, and then I put a little white streak in the bird wing and the little logo. It's like a The red wing with the little white streak. I love that. Which I've had since I was 24, by the way. It just showed up out of the blue, and I've had that white streak. And when I finally, at 31, when my red hair fated a little bit, it was still just that one white streak. And I I dying it when I died my whole head, and I just went, I'm used to this thing being here. It felt weird. So people always ask me, Why do you dye your hair white? I go, Because it's the only real color that's been there all this time. I just never touched It's so chic.

It's so unusual. I love everything about it. And as a matter of fact, you'll get a kick out of this. I'm doing a Marvel movie, and- You are? Yeah. But listen to this. I'm wearing hair with a streak in it in the front.

Get out of here. Fantastic. Swear to God. I've been told by someone that said, Oh, it means you've been kissed by an angel. So just wear that when you...

Oh, I've been kissed by an angel. Can I tell you something, Bonnie? I'm going to use that line in the movie. Can I use it? Good. Yes.

I'm going to totally use it. It was the hospice nurse that was there with my dad when he passed away in the Palisades. She said, I've always loved that white streak. You know it means you've been kissed by an angel.

Oh, I love hospice workers.

As she opens the window when my dad passed away and let his spirit out. I mean, whoa. I said, Okay, I'm taking that, and I'm going to be kissed by an angel. That's why I have the white streak.

Oh, my God.

I mean, it wasn't at the exact moment. It just mean that was the same person who was connected to the other realms in a way that when you are blessed enough to be able to be with a loved one as they're getting ready to go, and those angels, those saints, those hospice nurses are there helping you get through it. She just said, Does anyone mind if I open the window? And then he passed away, and she said, I like to let the spirit out. It was so moving to me. It wasn't anything I would question because she was an incredibly empathetic, compassionate, wonderful nurse that helped not only my dad, but the whole family get through that.

I think hospice workers are the most admirable, the most tender. My dad passed away with hospice workers, and I had the same experience, although now, having heard this about the window, I should have opened the window. But I know his spirit definitely found a way of the house. Anyway, I mean, we're all over the place, which is good.

That means we're- Oh, we were talking about my record company. Oh, yeah.

So wait a minute. So obviously, songwriting, generally speaking, is a male-dominated field, and I think, isn't it? Is it not?

I don't think so.

Well, you would know better than I. I thought it was.

Well, I'm just saying that I'm not a country music artist, but I was surprised with this amount of zillions of streams and appreciation of so many women artists in the country field that it turned out that for a couple of decades, they were mostly just playing guys on the radio. I couldn't understand what that gap was. We can't understand the wage gap. Are you kidding? Still there. But no, I think, I mean, Joni Mitchell and so many great, Carol King, great singer, songwriters and artists have I've always been instrumentalist as well.

But when you're writing a song, Bonnie, is it important to you to write a song through a female lens?

No, I don't even think about that. You don't think about gender.

You're just writing.

Well, when I sing Angel from Montgomery, some of my strongest songs have been written by men about women. Nobody's Girl is a beautiful song from nick of Time, Larry John McNally. Oh, my God, there's a whole slew of them are so inside what women are feeling. There's a song of mine on Lungy in Their Heart called All at Once. It was the first time I wrote in the third person about a woman that had a fight with her daughter, a teenage daughter, and it was just like a short story. That really felt good to write and sing from a woman's point of view. So I sing from women's point of view, Women Be Wise.

Keep your mouth shut. Don't advertise your man. I love those lyrics.

Oh, thank you. I think I've written a lot of really strong lyrics. Oh, please.

Just like that is incredible. I mean, I was just relistening to that yesterday and then this morning, and every time I hear it, I cry. I lay my head upon his chest. I was with my boy again. I mean.

Thank you. I watched that go down on TV. A news team brought a crew for a woman to meet the man who had her son's heart. And that It first inspired me. I mean, I wrote a story about a woman who actually caused the death of her child because she was looking the other way, and she just was so ashamed and so horrified. She just disappeared, and there was no way for her ever to have any redemption. She was just one of those people, that crazy lady down the street with the blinds closed, and that this guy who had her son's heart that she didn't even know was donated, spent all this time to find her. But anyway, there are a lot more songs I sing from a woman's point of view. I should probably say I write from a woman's point of view. I just don't think about it consciously.

I understand. Well, I mean, it's your experience as a woman, so that's why you don't think about it consciously, I would imagine. But also, I wanted to mention, too, that your cover of Baby Mine.

Oh, I love that one.

So I have to say that when I was listening to that on repeat, when I had my first son, and by the way, Produced by Dawn was, who Dawn and Gemma are good friends of ours.

Oh, of course they would be good friends of yours. Aren't they the greatest? The greatest. Oh, and Sheila. I know because I knew Sheila more because she booked me for David Letterman. Oh, my God.

Speaking of which, do you know we met on Letterman?

Yes, we did. I remember I was going, God, she just built like a rocket ship. I just remember loving you. Me? But then going, Man, I am going to work out more. No, stop it. I was so inspired. I remember being thrilled that we were on at the same time.

Oh, my God. Me, too. And I have a picture I just have to show you. Here it is. I know our listeners can't see. How do I get this big? Here. How do I do this?

I can see it. Oh, sweet. Oh, my God.

Isn't that fun?

Are we foxes or what?

We are stone cold fucking foxes.

I love it. And I was so happy that you were friends with Jane Fonda, yes. Yeah. You're political. I love who you are in the world, too. So we're going to go on and on like this. People were going to just shake their head and go, You guys just make a date and sleep together. Get it over with.

Well, fuck them. We're doing what we want to do. We can talk about anything we want. What was it like being on the road all the time with men? Was it great? Did you love it? Did they drive you crazy?

All of the above? No, I loved it, but I have two brothers. I'm not I'm not a girly girl anyway, so it was really fun. I was a tomboy. I never identified with hair and makeup. I just wasn't into shopping. I didn't want to be a wife and mother. From the get-go?

Yeah.

Gidget was a big role model when that book and movie came out, when she was not accepted in a man's world of surfing, and then she got really good at it. Yes.

You're the Gidget.

Yeah. And then I've also said this on interviews, but I really loved Amanda Blake because she had red hair, and she owned the saloon, and she didn't have to get married, but they were way in love. I just thought that was so cool because a lot of women, the mothers of my friends in LA when I was growing up, somehow in the middle of our teen years, a lot of them were getting dumped. The husbands were marrying younger women. Either the wives later, I realized, might have been premenopausal or when the kids... My dad left my mom when I was 19 and found a younger woman that he was closer with. I don't know what went on between them closed doors, but parenting teenagers can put a lot of stress on a relationship. Sure. And my dad was away a lot, and my mom was... It was difficult. And so I just got the message where I just don't want to have to depend on any guy. I just rather be way in love, but stay independent and be not the other woman, like breaking up people's homes. Even before feminism, I didn't want to have that model of being married and living in the suburbs and having kids.

Did you Did you pushback on that from anybody?

No. Didn't. I was just naturally a tough girl, and I adopted that Blues mama persona early on with my band Jump Ahead from teenage years to My first album, I couldn't stand the way I sang because it was so fruity and I wanted to sound like Eta James, and it wasn't going to happen. Wait a minute.

Wait a minute. You couldn't stand it on the first album?

No, I hated it. But I loved doing it. I just didn't like listening to it. So I would adopt this swagger and drink and smoke and talk. I mean, I listened to some bootleg live shows of my early folk days where I was just like, What Who was I? I adopted a persona as if I was somebody that did own a saloon.

Can you listen back to your music or you can't? Is it hard for you to listen? I mean, you're talking about your first album in the early days, but is it hard for you to listen back?

I have great affection and compassion and a lot of great memories of who she was back then. I'm proud of the music that I made. But do I like listening to my voice? Not really. I mean, maybe as I got older, I could like it more. Yeah. How about you? When you see yourself, do you cringe when you see early's footage of yourself?

I don't like it. I got to tell you, Bonnie, I don't like it. I really don't. I mean, there are a few exceptions, but I'm pretty dodgy about it, and I just watch mistakes. I see mistakes I'm making. No, it's true. I do. But I like certain things. There are certain bits and I can watch, but for the most part, I would say I just wince.

I have a lot of that, too. I know exactly what you mean. And here's the thing that I found out. Yes. How about when you think you're making a cool-looking face at the camera? Oh, please. You see the results and you look like you're just trying to go to the bathroom or something. You look like such a dumbass. I know.

It's funny you say that because somebody posted something of me on Instagram or somewhere at Anyway, it was some red carpet event, and I had gotten it in my head that I smile too much on the red carpet.

I'm right with you. Are you going with this?

And so I'm standing there and I'm looking over my shoulder and a slightly open mouth, and I'm not smiling. And I look like I'm comatose in the picture.

I mean, it's really so embarrassing. I just had to just look at a whole bunch of shots where I could have sworn I or even live shots now. I'm editing, helping pick the promo pictures for the Austin City Limit show we cut. All these shots of me playing guitar, they just look hideous. I mean, now I'm going to be self-conscious about how I play.

Oh, no, you mustn't be.

I don't want to be. I just want to wear a COVID mask and just make whatever face I want.

Let me explain to you something. When you have that guitar on, nobody holds a guitar like you. Nobody has swagger like you do. It is incredible. So under no circumstances are you allowed to do a head game on yourself about holding that guitar. I will not permit it.

Well, the guitar part is fine. I just have to make sure that I'm not making the face that I just saw in about 10 photos.

But your voice has changed as you've gotten older. It's gotten a little bit deeper, is it? I guess. I mean, I think that happens naturally, too.

It happens. You get lower, you get more notes down below as you get older. It sounds great. Because I warm up more. Oh, thank you. I feel like I have more agility. I have to say, when I look at my pals Jackson Brown and Bruce Hornsby, Bruce Springsteen, a lot of people men and women that are touring now, their voices have never been better. And it's really great because we're not 50, we're like 70.

It's fantastic. It's a huge benefit to aging, isn't it?

And look at Tony Bennett and Willy and Bibi. I mean, my dad God was singing his butt off when he was in his 80s. Incredible. I mean, when people go, Are you going to retire? I go, Why would I retire?

Why would you do that? No, keep going. Never stop. Never stop. Actually, I'm circling back to something because I really did want to ask you, all these fabulous people in blues, women in particular, and Sippy Wallace. And I know you talk about her like she was your grandmother. I do need to know what... Because she was like a wise old lady for you, correct?

Yeah, exactly. And I hung out all my 20s with these people who are like my age now. Yeah.

So if you recall, what wisdom did she impart to you? What did you learn from her?

Well, I'll tell you what was great was that she had all of the inherent swaggerer still, but she was bemused. And I don't think that when you're in your 20s, you're bemused used by men's bad behavior. In her case, if somebody should have paid royalties, she was just really happy to be appreciated. She would just sit and listen to us clowning around in the dressing room. I just looked over at her and she was not winking, but almost. She was bemused and relaxed and having the time of her life. I said, Man, I want to get to that Yoda place. Muddy was like that. John Lee Hooker was like that. A lot. Fred McDdowell, Mississippi Fred McDdowell, Sippy Wallace. When you're talking about Ruth Brown, who did get ripped off and built Atlantic Records, she was from a different generation. In the '50s, she built Atlantic Records. She was pissed, so you don't cross her. But Sippy was for me as a young woman to be with somebody that was so wise about men And she said, You can make me do what you want to do, but you got to know how. That was one of the songs of hers.

I picked her songs because the feminists would say, What do you mean, Women be wise, keep your mouth shut, don't advertise your man. That if you talk about yours, they're going to come up and steal them. Well, excuse me, that's what happens. Women don't do that to each other. I go, Oh, really? What world are you living in? Exactly. You're going to brag on why somebody is such a great lover, and then you're surprised when you're on the road and they take a little taste.

Come on. But first of all, that's so funny because you're describing her and her way of being bemused, and it sounds like relaxed. It's how you're describing yourself right now to a certain extent, right?

I hope I reach the Sipi Wallace level of bemusement. Because really, you got to just sit back and go, It's out of my I'm going to troll, but I'm going to troll. There's layers of political stuff that are on top of being alive now that I don't know whether any bemusement would be- No, I hear that. What I would call any- No, I heard that. But I'm just saying in her As a young woman, she was like what I'm aspiring to feel like now. Like, okay, she's okay. She's okay.

Yeah.

She's sitting with it all. She's sitting with it all.

She can breathe deep.

Funny, present, bring it when she needs to. She didn't seem to care about what people thought about her. All that stuff. I mean, we're tyrannized by the weight thing, by Am I pretty enough?

I know. Believe me. What about ageism? Oh. Yeah. Talk about that, Bonnie.

I think in my folk americana wing of the music business, we only get more legendary and people respect us more as we get older. I don't see the discrimination that leading ladies got in my dad's business when Connie Towers and other people turned 50 and other actresses. They were over. In my world, I did not face sexism or ageism, but I did face men in the beginning not liking to be told that I was self-managed, that I was the music director of my albums. That was odd to be told what you were doing not correctly or you'd like somebody to do it differently in the studio when I couldn't play that instrument as well as they could. So who are you who died and made you the boss? There was a little bit- So how did you hear that?

There was a little bit... Talk about that? I mean, how did you manage that tiptoe around that?

First of all, try to make sure you're only in the room with people that have a lot of respect for you. And most of that time, that was the case. There was one record where I was with a lot of really heavy hitters in New York, and I was only 24. And there was an actual producer, Jerry Ragovoy. And so what I would do, oftentimes, that would be a partnership. And when something tricky needed to be said, sometimes I would ask him to rephrase it. He'd be like my Secretary of State or Yeah, he was the diplomat. He was a UN ambassador that went in and said, What she means to say here is... It sounds great. It sounds great, but...

Did you ever have any self-doubt, or did you stand pretty firm or was it a combo? Probably a combo, I would think. Isn't that human?

When it comes to music, my ears tell me when something's working. I cannot lie. If it doesn't sound right, if the groove's too rushed or the the playing, that track wasn't it, I have to be completely honest. And I trust that implicitly since the beginning. I can tell when it's the right take. And pretty much the people that I picked to work with, they feel the same way. So I haven't had a lot of pushback on that. The pushback sometimes is in the record company where they don't like to see a woman represent themselves. And if you say, How come you don't put enough records in the stores after I just sold out that city? They don't like to that from the artist. They want to have an intermediary, and it's usually a guy.

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It's interesting. I haven't been asked this in a very long time, and it's an interesting... When we started out speaking about the uppercase and lowercase place. I was worried that by personally becoming more at peace and serene and well, that I wouldn't... The edge that I had, that the suffering, that the anger and the resentment and the betrayal. And I'm singing all of your pain. I'm singing for you. I'm going through it, too. And I had this bad relationship. I picked all those relationships so I could be authentic when I sang about pain. But I'm just saying that what happens when you get out of agony and you're not suffering anymore and you're not pain? What if it doesn't sound as authentic when you're up there trying to play? And in fact, it was just as if the windshield was clearer and I could be more authentically me and feel even stronger. I watched Stevie Ray Vaughn come out of rehab, and he was worried about whether he'd be able to play the same, whether he'd have the same fire. Where's the source of that fire? Is it suffering suffering in pain and self-doubt and all of those even existential questions.

And it turns out that the miracle that happens when you can be coming from a different place that's not inauthentic or phony or a crutch of becoming somebody else or putting in chemicals to try to be that other person, you can be... Like the Wizard actually came up with the solutions all by himself without being behind there. So that was what was beautiful. And for me, singing singing my songs straight, because I didn't sing in my shows messed up. I waited till after the show to get high. So it wasn't that different. But being the person that I became when I was more authentically okay with the smaller case me only made the bigger case me stronger, I think, and more compelling and more passionate. The suffering is right there. I can remember what those pain... When I sing, I can't make you love me, it's as if I just went through it.

It's like Like you said, the Wizard says, you had it all along.

I just got goosebumps from that. That's what I think I want to know. I want to know that I had it all along, that I don't have to put it on. It's not a role that I'm playing. It's a beautiful thing to just feel so in your moment when I'm singing and playing music and it's working. It's like you when you're doing your thing and it's just perfect. It's the ultimate- It's the ultimate. Melding of what you were supposed to be doing on this Earth this time. And I know what a gift it is. So I'm not going to cheapen it and mess it up. Right.

That's good. That makes me Happy to hear. We were talking about it earlier with your dad in hospice. Grief is obviously a subject that comes up a lot on this show because we have women who have lived a long time, therefore they've lost important people in their lives. Has music helped you process your grief?

Absolutely. It is probably the longing for what I wish I could have and love or didn't get as a little kid. That's not grief, but it's longing and the loss of so many things in my life that I didn't cherish at the time. Well, I just mean relationships that because I'm on the road all the time, I wish I had nurtured more. That's something we all kick ourselves for. But the loss of so many people has been when I go to sing now, I sing Dimming of the Day for my brother Steve. I wrote this rocker song with my guitar player. I put the words to it called I'm Living for the Ones Who Didn't Make It. The rockers actually get the energy out as much as the sad song. Songs. But that Angel from Montgomery, I mean, wipes me out. I mean, there's so many different songs that have ache in them. And grief is a big part of that because it's been part of my life the last 20 years, especially. Yeah, right.

So it's cathartic that way, right, Bonnie?

Absolutely. And I know the audience is feeling that. And when I sing just like that, I try not to make eye contact with the people in the audience, but the guys in the band will tell me there people sobbing in the front. Or I've gotten letters from a woman that have said, I've never seen my husband cry. We've been married 40 years. And when you sing, I turn and look at him and he was crying. I can't make you love me. So I know that I'm holding a really holy space on those songs like Angel from Montgomery and the feisty ones. I'm holding that space. And when you're asking about, do I write from women's point of view? Yeah, I've written a whole lot of songs, Meet Me Halfway, Standing by the Same Old Love, Down to You. There's a whole bunch of tunes, Baby, Don't You Know I'm On Your Side, that are about... Even though we were finished talking about it, I just went, I'm standing up for these positions, these lyrics that I pick. I'm standing up for those people in the audience that need to say that to their partners. And a lot of them are women.

So, yeah, I take back saying, I don't think about gender. I think about me, but because I'm a woman, I'm speaking about, meet me halfway.

I mean, that's your default position. That's where you are. I like that you use the word holy because I think your music is holy.

Oh, thank you. I do. It feels that way when I'm singing it. Thank you for receiving it. It really means a lot.

I do. I totally receive it with open arms. And what a dream. What a dream.

Can you imagine how it feels for me to be off the road since October and have my first time being me again, be with you receiving me with such an... I mean, I knew you were a fan, but not to the extent of soul connection that we have. So many things line up. And all the important- The real things. Ways. The real things. And I admire you so much. For you to like me It's just thrilling. Thank you. It's mutual.

Thank you. Tell me, I'm going to just take this moment to ask a couple of very quick questions that I like to ask the ladies when we're talking on the show. Is there something you go back and tell yourself at 21?

Oh, wow. Try to pick partners that are more your peers than someone that's just feeding what you need and companionship and being okay. See if you can make more parity in the decision. And that's hard to do when you travel all the time. But that's Good advice. But I wish I had... I've had relationships with people that were really even on many, many levels, and those are the ones that had a shot. And when I aimed lower and just filled up on fast food for that desire, and I didn't. I was holding out for the higher one later. Well, next thing you know, I would have liked to have known that sooner.

Okay, that's really good advice. What are you looking forward to, Bonnie? Oh, gosh.

Oh, peace, sanity, coming together, Putting aside our differences and an end to this, a redirect of the road we're on onto one that's more solid and more loving and more compassionate and more just. And may we be at peace. May I be at peace. May I find a way to be effective. And I'm looking forward to making a difference if I can help make that happen. That's the future I want to see.

Well, that's the perfect way to end this conversation.

Well, I'm a basket case.

I am, too.

I'm going to- I'm singing. I'm going to go sing on a record by the man who co-wrote I Can't Make You Love Me and the wonderful Joe Henry that produced eight songs I've put out on the last few albums, one of my favorite songwriters. And the two of them are collaborating on a record together. I'm going to go finally get to pay back to Mike Reid by singing on his... He sings like an angel. You know how Michael McDonald's voice is unearthly beautiful? Mike Reid, he's made several albums of his own. He's just so... But for a former Cincinnati bangle football player to have come up with the music for I Can't Make You Love Me, and with Alan Shamblin to come up with that Don't Patronize Me.

Don't Patronize Me is extraordinary. Oh my God. Oh my God. So you're going to that now.

And I'm going to take this lump my throat that you've carefully honed for the last 2 hours. And I'm going to use that and sing on this beautiful song that they did together.

Oh, I'm so happy. Oh, I'm so happy. I can't wait to hear it.

Me too. I can't wait. I just think now it doesn't exist. In a couple of hours, it will always exist. All right. It's amazing. All right. I can't wait to see you again and make a difference together and have a blast and laugh and hike and do all that stuff. Okay. We are one.

We are one. Bonnie Raitt, the most wonderful, the most authentic.

Julia. Oh, thank you for everything. Thank you, Julia. I love you, too. Love you. Be well. Love you.

You, too.

Bye. Bye.

Oh, my God, I love her. I'm like, lying on the floor. Oh, Bonnie Raitt. Wow. Okay, I got to get my mom on Zoom so I can tell her all about this. Hi, Mama. You look so nice with your red lipstick. Oh, I put some red lipstick on.

What do you think of it?

I love it. I think it's chic.

Thank you. Sometimes I used to see old ladies with red lips, and I couldn't ever decide if I thought it was good or bad.

I'll tell you when it's bad. It's bad when the lipstick's out of bounds. As soon as the lipstick goes out of bounds, that's a big red flag. Pull over and get that fixed. Yeah.

But this is a lipstick that's very dry. In other words, have I done it right?

Yes, it looks perfect. Okay, good. Wait, put your mouth closer to the screen. Let me see. Oh, yeah, mom, it's good.

That good?

Yeah, it's very good. All right. Well, that's all we have time for today.

So much for activism and the good of the planet.

Okay, so I just had a very lengthy conversation with Bonnie Raitt, who is a hero of mine. And I have to tell you that I started the intro and I could feel that I was just going to lose it. I knew I was going to start crying from the second I started to talk to her. And I felt that way through the entire interview, and I actually did cry a number of times talking about her and her music and what she's meant to me. But it was so... Mom, can we talk about trying not to cry? Have you Have you ever been in a position where you were trying not to cry and you couldn't get your shit together, and you did, and it was bad? I'm not saying it was bad that I was crying talking to her, but that it was awkward or anything like that?

Yeah. There was one time when I met Carl Sandberg's daughter, and I just started to cry. I was so overwhelmed with being close to somebody that was a daughter of Carl Sandberg that I felt like I was in this state of grace, but it came as a surprise. I didn't expect it. I couldn't stop that feeling of overwhelmed, both joy and melancholy. I don't know how to explain it, but in retrospect, it was wonderful to feel that way, feeling the glory of the world, letting the glory of the world come in through a person. Totally.

Yeah. Did she respond? Was it awkward or was she happy to receive that? Or what would you recall?

One of the songs that we sang in those days, because we love folk music, was The Colorado Trail, and Carlos Sandberg wrote it. We had literally been singing it the night before, and I started to tell her that. I couldn't tell her. I couldn't say it because it I was so overwhelmed.

Oh, that's so good. That makes me feel better about today.

I didn't know that Bonnie was a big hero of yours. Tell me about that.

Well, her music has been a part of my life from being a teenager forward. She is an unusual singer and songwriter in that she's a woman, and she plays blues guitar like nobody's business. She sings soulfully. Her style of music speaks to me. You know how you have certain styles that you love? I love her style of musicianship. She She's just a remarkable person. And we were talking about the Holiness of her music, and I think her music is holy. So it was just really intense and It's incredibly heartwarming, and I love her to death.

There are some things that go beyond words, and something that happens to us when we're in contact with those people or what they represent to us or what they've said that means something to us. But there are people that are, I guess, in a way bigger than life or who just have opened you up to certain things. I mean, what can you say? It's just your body and soul just is like, wow.

I know. Exactly. Well, mommy, I'm going to talk to you again later, very soon, as a matter of fact, because I'm coming to visit you. But thanks for talking now. I love you.

And I love you. And don't start crying when you see me. No, you. I'd love to be that figure for you.

You are, mom. You are. Yeah.

Much love.

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